| These days, I always feels something got stuck in my throat. The doctor said it was because of stress. He made an example by saying people got headache out of no reasons. I guess, he was implying my sickness was due to no reasons too! It has been there for the whole week but I did not feel that stressed out just solely because of work. Whatever. Well, but indeed I have to thank my body for telling me to unwind. I can be psychologically strong. There is nothing can make me really mad if I force myself to be happy. But somehow, emotion can go out of control when it comes to a point that makes you literally breakdown. I am not an expert on happiness, but if you are reading this entry, neither are you. The only thing I know I should do is to avoid things/ people that make me unhappy. If your relationship makes you unhappy, quit. If your job makes you unhappy, quit. This may sound counter-intuitive as your high-school teacher might have told you a thousand times "Quitting is not an option." However, I think one can only move forward by living a healthy happy life. You will be more driven at work when you feel good about it. Hence, you will be more successful in actualizing your potential by doing something that makes you happy. Not to mention about relationship. Love, no doubt, you have to share sorrows. But love, is also about making each other happy mutually, truthfully and unconditionally. So if happiness directly links to success and directly links to health...... quitting could be an option. Just like what Morrie said, "Don't quit too soon, but don't hang on for too long." ~ Tuesdays with Morrie ~ |
